In 1905, Felicia G.
[right, with her mother] was born in Narvosielica, in present-day Ukraine. Her father was a
hard-drinking womanizer with a bankrupt estate in Russian Poland, the
fortune-hunting Polish Count Józef G. Her mother, Eleanor Medill Patterson,
was a Chicago-born newspaper heiress and the granddaughter of Joseph Medill,
founder of The Chicago Tribune.
Felicia
would come to Alcoholics Anonymous (A.A.) in 1943, relapse briefly during her
first year, and have her last drink in 1944. Marty M. became her sponsor. Her
story, “Stars Don’t Fall,” appears in the 2nd and 3rd editions of the Big
Book, Alcoholics Anonymous.
In 1927, after receiving a letter from Frank Shaw of J. K. Rice & Co. inquiring
about rumors of his drinking again, Bill W. replied. He was researching the
Cuban sugar industry
[left: cutting sugar cane on a Cuban plantation]
for Frank while staying at the luxurious Hotel Sevilla in Havana, Cuba. Bill
promised that he and Lois were “going to move to another place which will be
more reasonable and which from now on will answer our purpose just as well.”
However, Lois later recalled that they never left the Sevilla.
Bill’s letter continued:
Thank you for your remittance and your
letter which followed. Now a few lines for your eyes alone. I have never
said anything to you about the liquor question, but now that you mention
it and also for the good reason that you are investing your perfectly good
money in me, I am at last very happy to say that I have had a final
showdown (with myself) on the matter. It has always been a serious
handicap to me, so that you appreciate how glad I am to be finally rid of
it. It got to the point where I had to decide whether to be a monkey or a
man. I know it is going to be a tough job, but nevertheless the best thing
I ever did for myself and everybody concerned. That is that, so let us now
forget about it.
Later, Lois would write that Bill drank the
entire time they were in Cuba.
In 1930, after being fired in the fall by his “good friend” Dick Johnson, who had
given him a job in Montreal—mentioned in his Big Book story on p. 4: “Next
morning I telephoned a friend in Montreal…”—Bill W. wrote a pledge to Lois
to stop drinking in the family Bible: “Finally and for a lifetime, thank God
for your love.” This would be the fourth and final pledge he wrote
there [right]. Following this, in
despair, he would refrain from making any further promises, at least in
their Bible.
In 1938 [possibly the 4th], Archie T.
[left], who had been homeless until he moved in with his “unsuspecting” friend,
Ralph, was facing the prospect of having to leave:
Something went wrong with my drinking schedule on the 3rd
of September, on a Friday* night. Instead of getting drunk in
the morning and being asleep in the afternoon and being out and getting
drunk in the evening and coming home after Ralph went to bed, I got
tangled up somewhere and found myself at home in bed at at [sic]
ten o’clock at night and he was home too. The time was drawing near when
his family were returning from their vacation and I was going to have to
get out of there and incapable of finding myself a room because I
couldn’t stay sober long enough to face a perspective [sic]
landlady and I had no money with which to pay room rent although in that
marvelous alcoholic way, I always had money to drink with. Now don’t ask
me to explain that. I lay in bed thinking about approaching him, and
thought, “No, he’s been very good to me, he’s done a great deal for me
in the past. I don’t want to bother him. I don’t want to bother anybody
anymore.”
If I can’t find a
solution to this problem by next Monday, this was Labor Day weekend,
I’ll put an end to everything. But I finally concluded that before I did
anything like that I’d better go in and talk to him. I went in with
nothing on
my mind for the solutions to my problems except to
ask him if he would lend me $50. He got out of bed, where he’d been
reading, and walked up and down the floor and said: “You don’t need $50,
you need a great deal more than that.” Well, I agreed with him on that.
But he said “You need a new lease on life, a new interest. I can’t give
you those things, but I know someone who might. He asked me if I’d be
willing to go and talk to this woman [Sarah Klein†]. I knew
her very slightly, and I said, “Yes”. Because I would have said yes to
anything or anybody who might have some answers for me because I no
longer had answers for anything. So he grabbed the telephone and started
to make a date for me for the next day and I started to back water
[sic]. But it was too late and he made an appointment for me to
see this woman the next day.
At
four o’clock in the afternoon! [sic] He took me out, bought me
some drinks, brought me home, and put me to bed. And I lay there
somewhat quieted by the drinks and I wondered how I was going to keep an
appointment at four o’clock in the afternoon. And be reasonably sober!
And I finally hit on a marvelous solution. I would get up a little
earlier than usual and make an effort to get drunk faster. So that I
would come home knowing my own habits and sleep off the first of the
day’s drinks and then go straight over and see her to keep this
appointment. I did these things and they worked out that way.
I don’t know when I had my last drink. It was on Saturday morning on
the third of September before Labor Day in 1938. What time of day it was
in the morning I don’t know. I blanked out. I got in this car 25 minutes
after six. At about half-past seven is the latest my memory serves me.
What time I left there and went home and passed out I don’t know. I saw
this woman, and to be brief, she offered me a chance to go down to Akron
and to meet some men who had found a solution to their problem which was
my problem. She offered to take me, she and her husband offered to take
me there, and to do it the next day if I were willing to go. She however
insisted that I make up my own mind about it, perfectly freely and
without any pressure from her. This took me quite a while. I spent a
long time in her house sitting there thinking about it.
I finally made the decision. I left her house with the full intention
of hurrying as fast as my car would take me to the nearest saloon in
getting a drink. Half way [sic] to the saloon something stopped
me. I can’t tell you what it was. I know what I think it was. Today I’m
sure of what it was. I’m sure that her prayers, which were all that were
left to her, to do after she let go of me, that her prayers did that.
However, I went home and went to bed after 18 days of continuous
drinking I went home and went to bed and sweated it out all night. I
don’t need to describe that part of it to you. It makes me shutter
[sic] to think of it and it would make all you to [sic]
shutter [sic]
*The first Friday of September 1938 fell on the 2nd.
†Sarah
Klein [right] was known as “The Angel of AA” for her role in helping Archie
establish A.A. meetings in Detroit and for her dedication in carrying the
A.A. message to alcoholics, particularly n hospitals and prisons.
In 1940, The Wichita Beacon (Kansas) published an article
[left] titled “Wichita Will Have
Chapter Of ‘Alcoholics Anonymous.’” An unnamed hospitalized Wichitan said
that “he has contacted numerous of Wichita’s habitual drunkards and during
this week will seek them out to enroll them in the organization.” The article
ended by noting, “In telling the story of the A.A. who began the organization,
the Wichitan illustrated the fundamental help to alcoholics—religion.”
(It was in Wichita, Kansas, on 27 December
1900, that Carry A. Nation [right] first began using a hatchet—rather than the rocks and bricks she had
previously used—against saloons.)