28 February 2025

February 28 in A.A. History

In 1937, *Dick S. [below, near right] regained consciousness in Akron City Hospital after a binge. He later learned that his younger brother Paul [below, middle right], who had been sober for nearly eight months, had given him 5½ ounces of paraldehyde—more than twice the dosage recommended by Dr. Bob [below, far right]. Dick would remain sober for the rest of his life.
    His story, “The Car Smasher,” appeared in the first edition of the Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous, and outlined the four-step program he recommended:
First: Have a real desire to quit.
Second: Admit you can’t. (This is the hardest.)
Third: Ask for His ever-present help.
Fourth: Accept and acknowledge this help.
He later rewrote his story, which was retitled “He Had To Be Shown,” for the second and third editions of the Big Book.




* “The Car Smasher” begins with, “During the first week of March 1937,… I ended 20 years of a life made practically useless [by drinking].” In contrast, the second-to-last paragraph of “He Had To Be Shown” states, “On Sunday when I came to, it was a bad, wet, snowy day in February 1937…”. Weather records for Akron in February 1937 indicate that temperature ranges were likely too high and precipitation too low for any Sunday to be described as “a bad, wet, snowy day,” except for the 28th. Therefore, I conclude that the Sunday Paul referred to in “He Had To Be Shown” must have been the 28th.

In 1942, the Columbus (Ohio) Group split into two groups. Fourteen members left to establish the Central Group at the Odd Fellows Temple, located at 24 W. Goodale St. This new group decided to install a phone and set up an office at the temple for Twelfth Step calls. Additionally, the Central Group was responsible for printing one of the earliest A.A. newsletters.

In 1942
, Ruth Hock [far left] left the New York City Alcoholic Foundation office to marry Phil Crocelius; Margaret “Bobbie” B. [near left] took her place as National Secretary, A.A.’s second and last. Bobbie had been a professional dancer in the U.S. and Europe during the 1920s and, as Ruth noted, in the fashion of the 1940s, wore “tiny little hats and went tripping along in her high heels, but was a fantastic communicator.”
In 1947, the Naugatuck (Connecticut) Daily News reported that Edward McDermott, the executive director of Easy Acres in Newtown, a state sanitarium for neurotics, spoke at a meeting of the Waterbury Junior Club on the topic of “Alcoholism and Alcoholics Anonymous.”

27 February 2025

February 27 in A.A. History

In 1903
, Paul H. [left, in 1920] was born in Butte, Montana, to Mary Furlong and Daniel J. H., the founder of a department store bearing the family name in Butte. In 1940, Paul would get sober in Alcoholics Anonymous in Washington, DC.

 In 1939, six weeks after leaving the hospital in Los Angeles, California, where which he had gone to detoxify, Pat C. wrote to the Alcoholic Foundation, stating that he had recovered from his alcoholism. Bill W., Hank P., and Ruth Hock had been sending copies of the multilith manuscript all over the U.S. A copy came into Pat’s mother’s possession, and he read it cover to cover. He thanked them for it and shared his story—how he started drinking in 1917, his World War I service, how his drinking continued in France, and how it persisted after he returned home from the war. He described the following 15 years as “one drunk after another.”
    He enlisted in the Marine Corps. Initially, he drank very little and was promoted to Gunnery Sergeant. However, he soon began drinking heavily again, was demoted in rank, and sent to China, which did not help his drinking problem. He did not reenlist.
    After returning home, his wife left him due to his drinking, and he struggled to hold a job. He remarried, but his new wife and mother were concerned about his drinking. Then, his mother read about A.A. in an article published by a doctor and wrote to him. The doctor forwarded her letter to A.A., who responded immediately.
    n his letter, Pat mentioned that he was already reaching out to help other alcoholics. Ruth Hock wired him, asking for permission to use his letter anonymously. He replied the next day, “Permission granted with pleasure. Lots of luck.” They included his story, “Lone Endeavor,” ghostwritten by Ruth based on their correspondence, in the Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous.
    This was the first time anyone had heard of someone getting sober simply by reading the book, so a collection was taken up to buy him a bus ticket to New York City. When the bus arrived, the welcoming party found Pat sleeping off a drunk under the back seat. His story was removed from the Big Book before the second printing.

In 1961, Bill W. wrote to Nell Wing from Cambridge Beach, Bermuda [right: the note]: 

Bermuda Feb. 27 1961
Monday

Nell Dear
    We are having a great time – probably the best vacation we ever had. We look & feel so well you wouldn’t know us The weather has been perfect and Cambridge Beach is a superb spot – really the best possible.
    Pls <indecipherable> Bert Gardner for us –
Much love
           Bill


26 February 2025

February 26 in A.A. History

In 1940
, Bill W. replied [left] to John D. Rockefeller’s letter dated February 23, in which Rockefeller expressed his regret for being unable to attend the large dinner he had planned to host for A.A. (his son, Nelson, hosted in his stead).
Dear Mr. Rockefeller:
    On an occasion such as this one can seldom write as deeply as he feels.
    You and your friends have offered us the finest thing you could ever give—your confidence. To merit this trust, to meet the responsibilities, to fulfill the purposes implicit in that evening at the Union Club is our great desire. In no other way shall we ever be able to thank you.
    I hope you may always depend upon us for a good measure of discretion, true humility and simple faith in The Great Physician who has already brought us so far.
                                    Sincerely yours,
                                    <signed William G. Wilson>
                                        Wm. G. Wilson
                                             for
                                    Alcoholics Anonymous

In 1962, Warren C. of Canton, Ohio, a merchandising manager for Superior Dairy Co., shared his A.A. story at the Dover (Ohio) Kiwanis Club. The following day, his speech—attributed to him by full name—appeared at the bottom of page 1 in Dover’s newspaper, The Daily Reporter, under the title “Don’t Fluff Off The Alcoholic!”

In 1999, Felicia G. [right]—author of “Stars Don’t Fall” in the 2nd and 3rd editions of the Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous—died at age 93. She was born in 1905 in Blansko, in what is now the Czech Republic, to the fortune-hunting Polish Count Józef G. and Chicago-born newspaper heiress Eleanor Medill Patterson, granddaughter of Joseph Medill, the founder of The Chicago Tribune.
    In 1908, her mother took her away after a violent fight with her father, who later kidnapped his daughter from London and placed her in a Russian convent. Her return required intervention from President-elect William Howard Taft with Czar Nicholas II.
    The “little Countess,” as the newspapers called her, married (1) Andrew Pearson—renowned as Drew Pearson, one of the best-known American columnists of his day, noted for his syndicated newspaper column “Washington Merry-Go-Round” and his NBC Radio program Drew Pearson Comments—in 1925, but divorced him three years later; (2) Dudley de Lavigne, an impoverished insurance broker, in 1934, a marriage that lasted less than a year; and (3) John Magruder, a landscape architect, in 1958, whom she divorced in 1964.
    For most of her professional career, she went by her maiden name. In her later years, she wrote for American magazines and newspapers, lived in New York and elsewhere, and authored novels and short stories. In her 1939 novel Flower of Smoke, the Austrian-American heroine famously declares, “Make your own peace, no matter what.”